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I mentioned it to 2 of my co-workers in my department a few months back and they were totally against it. One told me how her friend suffers from lap-band, etc. I have only told my OB/GYN, PCP, two workout buddies, pastor, best friend and my husband. I worked really hard last year on a strict eating and workout regimen and lost 60 lbs. I have managed to keep 30lbs off. L Never got below 200 though sadly enough. People thought I was smaller which was a plus. So, as far as anyone else is concerned, they will think I am back at it.

I really think she is insecure, scared, and like someone else said doesn't want to lose her "binging" buddy. Me and my workout buddies are doing this together. We have been dillgent the last year and half and lose/gain cycle. Two of us are doing the sleeve and we will probably be doing it within a month of each other. What's funny is we have planned to share appetizers together. LOL. My other frriend since 94, is a size 12. I have always been larger than her, etc. She knows my struggles and was absolutely okay with me having the surgery and offered for me to stay with her to recooperate. I actually spoke with my pastor about it a few weeks ago and was encouraged to "go for it". I do believe not every diet works for everyone. Some people can workout lose the weight and keep it off. That's not my testimony. Neither was being on Adkins, Weight Watchers, hCg, Nutrisystem, etc. You have to what is best for you.

I understand totally, I have "smelled" to myself before too. My hubby was looking at me like I had lost it but it was real to me. Plus, I too could smell it in my clothes. UGH!!!! I went to the dermatologist and she prescribed drysol. Worked wonders!

Wow, that was fast!!! Congratulations!

My hubby said he will support me but said he didn't think I have given enough time to any diet or exercise to work. (Mind you for the last 8 years he has seen me lose a few and gain more over and over.) That surgery is so drastic, etc. I think the main reason he is against it is because he is insecure and he weighs over 515+lbs. I initially told him we can do this together but he doesn't want any part of it. Others have talked to him and even his doctor. This guy my hubby knows has had the surgery and is down to about 225. He was amazed how good he looks. But, it caused the guy to deal with a lot of "personal issues", that I think my hubby doesn't want to face. I have a good support system from my friends and this board. I encourage you to get your hubby educated even if it is with a brochure here and there or an email. My hubby doesn't like to read but maybe a youtube video from someone would help too. I decided I didn't want to live life anymore on the sidelines. I am tired of taking 4 blood pressure medicines everyday and plus, I am pre-diabetes. So, me having the surgery and being off of those meds, would save us at least 1000 a year. The bottom line you have to be comfortable with your decision and the reasons for the surgery. If you stand strong, not waiver and please don't nag, I am sure he will come around at some point. :-)

I went for the EGD on yesterday and I have an ulcer and I have been placed on prev pac antibiotics. I have to go back in 6 weeks for a retest to see if everything is cleared up. My hopes for having a July surgery date was dashed to pieces. L I called today and made my follow-up appointments for weight management for August and September.

Congratulations!!!

You look great!!! I could barely even see your scars. I sure I will be just as successful. Wow! 9 months. AMAZING!

Congratulations!!!!! I love to shop!

Congrats!!!!

Swimming---now that's on my to do list--to learn how to do. :-)

OMG!!! 11 weeks. You will be at your goal in no time! Congrats!

Wow. When I went for the psych eval, I told the therapist I was on this site and obesity help. I told her that both were a good source of information from people that are going through it, good, bad or indifferent. She was happy that I was in communication with others that would give me a general idea of "what to expect" and its also a good support system.

This was absolutely wonderful story. My PCP is great too. When I went in last week, I told her my plans and she told me to go for it. To live life and enjoy myself!

Congratulations!!! You are a Firecracker too!!!!

You look great! Congratulations!

I haven't had surgery yet but I went to the celebrate vitamins website and ordered the free sample. They will send you like 10-15 samples in different flavors. I ordered the multi-complete (which has iron) and calcium Sunday night and the package was here yesterday. I like the fact I only have to take 2 of the multi vitamins a day and then the calcium. Alternating 2 hour intervals.

It is not all bad, at least you have a surgery date. I have to wait until my last appointment for the info to be submitted to the ins company. I am hoping for a quick turn around and a mid-late July date.

Thank you for the update. It really helps us that are in the "preparation" stage to have a feel as to what to expect. We not not all results are the same but it give us a guideline. You are doing great!!!! You are in wonderland and out of the 200's. That's a reason to celebrate!!!!

OMG!!! Congratulations! I wish my surgeon's office would do that. But its okay. I am so excited for you!

That's wonderful! Congratulations!

Like someone else said, you look great!!!!!

Congrats on getting your date and the price difference!

Wow! That is wonderful! Keep up the good work

Wow! That is wonderful! Keep up the good work