ryansgirl

Had to adopt that attitude years ago. Too many people live there lives for intertain others. I live for ME, I'm not selfish at all, I love people, but going broke to please other people is not only rediculous but in sane! I've make my gifts, give them when I feel like it, not on a specific day of the year. I dress the way that I am comfortable, I love my friends, my family, and my co-workers. And they accept me as I am, as I do them. Anyone who doesn't do that, is NOT your friend. Be who you are, never what someone else what's you to be. You'll never be happy any other way.

I ask my husband once when we were dating, "will you tell me if I do anything that aggravates you or that you don't like?" he said "no" I said "why" he said. " I want youto be who you are, if I can't deal with that, then I don't need to be with you, You are who you are". I loved that attitude and we've been happily married for 7 years.

Keep you chin up girl....OXOXOX back atcha !!!

Judy