I understand the reason they want us to lose weight. But my husband, who met My surgeon for the first time today, was not impressed with the bedside manner of my surgeon. In the back of my mind, I'm really scared but keep thinking that LOTS of people who are even heavier than I am have this surgery done daily. I'm beating myself up and wondering if I should cancel. However, due to a change in jobs, my insurance will be changing effective May 1st and won't cover any bariatric procedures. I feel like it's now or never.