Muppet85

Hey guys! I have another user name but I am too shy to post under it so I made a fake name for this question. I am not sure if this is the right place to post but I hope someone has some answers or ideas. So I had a tummy tuck months ago (in December) and my doc removed a lot of skin. Not only did my skin get pulled down but some skin got moved up under my incision. Though my area "down there" looks good something seems to be wrong.... Ever since this tuck there seems to be something missing when it comes to my time in the bedroom. I can't seem to get complete satisfaction and reach a climax which has never happened before. At first I thought this was all about swelling and such but my bf and I have tried different things and yet still it is as if my doctor removed my pleasure point ( I know of course not true). It's just so weird that things have changed so much that I cant be pleasured. Has anyone experienced this kind of change after a tuck like this?

This is getting so frustrating. I guess its time to change some things but when it comes to sex and the bedroom I am so shy. As for doing things myself, that honestly doesn't sound appealing to me. I know it sounds strange, but it weirds me out. I have never even owned a vibrator. I keep hoping things will go back to normal but it has been months now. Guess I gotta get out of my shell more.... but its so hard.