I have a new boyfriend and haven't told him about my lapband yet and I know I need to. He has already noticed how little I eat and that I don't eat bread and a lot of veggies so he, as do most people, will eventually question it. I am embarrassed that I didn't have enough self control to keep the weight off myself. I never had a real weight issue until I had my second daughter at 33...then it was on! I was banded July, 2007 at age 40 and have done very well and met goal for the most part. I'm back to the old me...I just don't like to talk/tell about it. Any suggestions?