Ooh ohh I wanna answer this one..heehee!
Well here it goes, pre wls I would be mad, angry, hurt, upset and I'd suck it up and eat eat eat eat until I felt comforted. Now? I have no choice but to feel the emotions. if I have to state my opinions and stand my ground a little more then everyone else will have to suck it up for a while. My crutch is gone for crying out loud...
Good news- the more successful you are the less angry you will become.
So ride this wave proud and strong and for gods sake don't give up!