Thanks for your replies. Not sure yet what surgeon to choose or how to get there. But if I go alone, I will be flying. It's only $149 roundtrip. But if hubby goes, we will drive to San Diego and stay the night there. I have a 2 yr and 4 yr old boys..so unless we get his or my parents to watch them, I will be going by myself I am still in the VERY early stages of research and have alot of decisions to make.