-
Content Count
894 -
Joined
-
Last visited
-
Days Won
3
Content Type
Profiles
Forums
Gallery
Blogs
Store
WLS Magazine
Podcasts
Everything posted by Amanda131
-
What a way to declare your Independence! I am SO happy for you.
-
Well this is weird... and a little bit shocking!
Amanda131 replied to LilMissDiva Irene's topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
Great topic starter, Diva! I was always a very well proportioned heavy person and have been blessed with an hourglass shape so even at only halfway to goal the looks and conversations are starting to come. I actually believe I gained the weight back the last time I lost a bunch (like most of us, I lost and gained multiple times) because I was getting "noticed" and wasn't yet okay with it. I think I definitely ate myself into a happy little cocoon and when I lost the weight I just felt akward and weird when men noticed me. This time around I remembered that issue and employed a therapist to get okay with being noticed before it freaked me out again. I still find it odd that I was so adverse to being noticed by men- I've had no sexual trauma, abuse, etc. in my life. Here's my issue: my sister was always considered the "pretty one" (she's 5'11" and 130 lbs.) while I was the "smart one". My therapist believes I somehow got it into my head that thin women are not smart. Therefore, losing all the weight threatened how I most identified myself. I think she's right. Anyway, I shared all that because I think it's fascinating how such small things lead us to hang on to the comfort of our former size. And, don't even get me started on how losing weight has changed how I'm viewed/treated in the workplace. Amanda -
My new bladder...is this okay?
Amanda131 replied to decamom's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I noticed (and LOVE) the same thing. I just assumed that there must be extra room for the bladder to expand since 80% of the stomach moved out. Now, I'm curious for the real reason too! -
I almost spit my drink on the laptop when I read this- too funny! And, Myrori, you rocked those uniforms! Isn't crazy how much FUN trying on clothes is now a days?
-
Slow losing makes me a sore loser
Amanda131 replied to USMCwifeandTEACHER's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Goodness, talk about a case of emotional sabotage. I'm so sorry you had to experience that. However, from the brief description you provided of Mom, I get the feeling she's a bit weight obsessed and probably feels pretty threatened by your weight-loss. I'm thinking she was feeling a bit intimidated and that is how it came out. People who feel threatened need to put a dent in your armor, so she zeroed in on a weak area for you- fear that you aren't succeeding. But, I don't know her- just a guess. As I read your post, like the others, I noticed that you are at 33% of your excess weight lost without even being two months. That is a reason to dance on tabletops, not vent! To put it into perspective, I had lost about 38 pounds when I was at the same point as you, but that was only 27% of my excess weight. You are winning! You are a winner. Smile about that. -
I agree with what all the others I have said. I just want to add that when purchasing thongs, pay attention to the material, etc. How the thong is made will directly relate to whether you enjoy wearing them and/or can get used to them. I am also a fan of the Target brand. I like not having a visible panty line and I love how they make make me feel- just a lil' bit sexy.
-
Hey Coops! First, I've never mentioned how much I love your screen name! My maiden name is Cooper and I've had many friends call me "Coop" and Coops" over the years. Ah, nostalgia! Here is a thought- what if you change your measuring stick to things you have better control over? I know that we can eat right and exercise but we really can't control these crazy bodies- they have a mind of their own. I seen so many of us do all of the "right things" and still not have it show up on the scale. What if you were to set fitness goals? You seem to be very successful in the fitness realm. Perhaps setting some fitness goals that are a bit of a stretch and reaching them will help rebuild your confidence and lessen the feelings of failure? Or, set eating goals but don't tie them to weightloss, i.e. drink 64 oz. of Water a day, etc. I think if you set healthful goals like these that support weightloss but don't focus on it that you can truly control (unlike pounds lost) you can have the best of both worlds. Just an idea. Amanda
-
The Scale Says No But the Tape Measure Says Yes
Amanda131 replied to Raine's topic in Weight Loss Surgery Success Stories
Yay for you! I've always felt inches matter way more than pounds. NO ONE has to ever see what number the scale spits out but the inches are hard to miss! Amanda -
Breakfast Casserole: High protein, low carb!
Amanda131 replied to Virginia S's topic in Soft (stage 3)
Kristina- I accidently made mine without cheese and it worked just fine... because I like cheese I sprinkled some on top when it came out of the oven but it really didn't need it. Also, I had it the two following days for breakfast and it reheated great (30-40 sec). Enjoy! Amanda -
Tomorrow afternoon I will be interviewing for a chance at a GIGANTIC promotion. Although I am totally qualified for the position, I wouldn't have dreamed of throwing my name in the hat 3 months ago. The weight-loss and ability to control my eating has given me that much confidence. Part of me is terrified but another part is so grateful that I've found the confidence to pursue these opportunities I've let pass for too long. Getting the call that I made it to the interview stage is one NSV, actually facing the THIRTEEN member interview panel will be another. Actually getting the job? Beyond my wildest expectations! To those contemplating this surgery, I would say that the greatest benefit to this surgery beyond the weight loss is the confidence and self assurance you find on the other side.
-
Thanks all! I used to be a notorious food celebrator, so I'm learning new ways. I have to admit the new ways may be a lot more expensive... but I really needed that gorgeous gray leather office bag from Coach (it was the Outlet Store and marked down ridiculously).
-
Thank you all! I've been shopping like a mad woman for a slightly more professional wardrobe (and because I am out of clothes that fit). It's been seriously hard to accept that I don't wear an 18 or higher and that a Large will do just fine rather than an XXL. It's a great problem to have!
-
Hi all- Some you may remember that I posted about a month ago about a big job interview I had and that I got a call back. Well, I got the call today and was offered the position. This position is MUCH higher than my current position and the salary is a FIFTY percent increase over my current salary. To say I am thrilled is putting it lightly. The thing that I have thought about the most today as I accepted congratulations from friends and colleagues, is that I truly never would have applied for this position had I not had the sleeve surgery. The confidence that has come with taking control of my eating habits and the subsequent weight loss has changed me. And, for that, I am so incredibly grateful. I also keep thinking that this surgery just infinitely paid for itself! If you are in the investigation or pre-op phase, I want you to know how much positive impact this choice to have surgery and change your life can have on areas outside of your health and weight. I am so happy I could dance on table tops!!! Amanda
-
I've been a Lifetime member for a few years now and I can't say anything negative at all- I'm pretty thrilled with them. I have to say that my location at least feels more like a country club than a gym. The salon gives GREAT and affordable massages. The cafe has tasty and nutritional food. The pools are just awesome. The best part, in my opinion, is that even though my gym is in a "posh" part of town the people who go there are very normal. No gym bunnies in sight- thank goodness! They drive me nuts.
-
I GOT THE JOB!!!!!
-
I used to buy these years ago for hubby and I but forgot about them when I started doing most of our shopping at the Mega-HEB when it came to town. They are SO GOOD. Thanks for the reminder, I will be picking some up tomorrow! Amanda
-
Breakfast Casserole: High protein, low carb!
Amanda131 replied to Virginia S's topic in Soft (stage 3)
I tried this and it was AWESOME! I used Canadian Bacon style ham and chives for the onion. I also added a cup of fresh spinach. I forgot to put the cheese in it so I sprinkled it on top and that turned out YUM-O as well. Best part is that Hubby loved it too so it's a chance to cook just once (which doesn't happen all the time post op). Thanks for this! Amanda -
If this was a race, you'd be kicking @ss right now- Go YOU!!! That is seriously awesome. Be proud! Amanda
-
Scheduled losing? And awful compliments
Amanda131 replied to Nicole W's topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
Words escape me. Just wow. WOW. -
Yes, Yes, YES! Cludgie, you are not alone. I am like you- traditionally a ridiculously nice person. However, I have also recently noticed myself judging others. I wouldn't dream of saying anything out loud but I can't help looking at heavier people and their size, clothing choices, etc. Right now, I am obsessing over the thoughts of "Don't they know how unhealthy they are?" and "Why don't they do something about it?" Then I stop and remind myself that I was that person for TEN years before I did anything about it. I think my fascination has something to do with trying to make peace with myself over waiting so long to make the decision to get healthy. Regardless, I wanted you to know you aren't alone. Amanda
-
Anyone still undecided?
Amanda131 replied to optasia's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
WOW, Optasia, reading your post was like being in my head six months ago. No, really. I actually started this process THREE times before I finally followed it through to the actual surgery. Part of me now wishes I would have gone through with the surgery on my first run because I would have felt this amazing so much earlier but I also realize that I needed to be in the right place mentally before I could be successful in this journey. One of the things that really helped me this time, is that I began to make decisions based on what the "me" six months after surgery would think. I basically recognized that the "me" pre-surgery wasn't brave enough to do this but the "me" post-surgery would be grateful. And, I was SO right. Once I decided I was having the surgery I never once let myself think about it again because I knew I would talk myself out of it.. (Each time I bailed before, I decided to lose the weight myself. I would lose about 80 lbs and then gain 90 back. I did this THREE times. Ugh. So, I knew I could lose it and that I couldn't keep it off.) You have to find peace with the choice to have surgery, but please know that there are many of us who went into this still terrified and things worked out beautifully on the other side (at least for me!). Best of luck- feel free to message me anytime. Amanda -
I think I'm doing too good to be true - no problem with frequent sipping
Amanda131 replied to kristina's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I was right there with you! I had no trouble getting in my fluids and I'm even now able to eat more solid food than many sleevers (about a cup) on a normal basis. I was so concerned about this that I even asked by doctor about the bougie size used (34) at my 3 month appointment. He mentioned that I have a long torso and I am tall which makes for a longer stomach therefore I am able to eat slightly more. In the grand scheme of things that made total sense to me. At first, I was totally bothered by being able to eat and drink more but as the weight continues to fall off, I get more okay with it. Amanda -
4 weeks post op camping??
Amanda131 replied to Kasie's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
It's definitely doable but you may still be pretty tired. I was exhausted until about midweek four. That may make wrangling the kiddos on your own kind of difficult. Good luck! Amanda -
new symptom (insert weak & tired chuckle here)
Amanda131 replied to kids05's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Hi Kids05- I have NO ties to the medical community but I am a reactional hypoglycemic and your symptoms sound a lot like what I deal with if I eat sugar without Proteins and complex carbs to slow things down. My blood sugar spikes and then my body works too fast to process this sugar and my glucose level drops way too low causing me to get shaky/pass out. Once I recovery from this I am absolutely wiped out and yawn like crazy until I can crash. Again, I know very little about physiology... just a possibility. Amanda -
Just How Important is your Post-Surgical Dietitian
Amanda131 replied to happy1957's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
This is a timely post for me. I just had my 3 month post-op follow-up appt. with my doctor where I was expected to see the nutritionist as well. I actually cancelled the nutritionist portion of the appointment and I don't plan to reschedule. I am doing excellent on my plan with no questions, the nutritionist I had been working with left the practice AND they starting charging $75 for a half-hour visit. I just don't think that service is necessary for me at this point. My college roommate became a nutritionist so I learned A LOT vicariously through her and she's only a phone call away. But, do what works best for you. Amanda