While my husband's family is always good for making me feel horrible about myself, one of the worst things was the day before my surgery. I was spending time with my mother in-law when he brother and father asked me about my surgery. Instead of letting me tell them about it, they started spouting off about all of this crap they had heard (or made up more likely) about how I was going to end up after the surgery. Then, they asked me how much I weighed. When I told them that I was not going to tell them, and that they should NEVER ask ANY woman that question, they continued to talk about me like I was not even there. They thought that 'after she loses the weight, her self-esteem will be higher, and then she won't care about telling her weight'. When I told them that they were insensitive jack-asses, they looked at me as if I were the crazy one!:phanvan I hate going over there! Now, when I do, they've taken to calling me 'slim' and making a huge deal about any weight that I have lost. They still say crap like...you have such a pretty face....blah blah blah...and then ask how much my breasts have shrunk!