DreamLife36

Thank you all so much for your input. I will try to get into my Dr. for the initial consultation ASAP. I do want to try an lose something before I go in for my surgery. thanks again.

Um... the whole purpose is to lose weight. I think you missed something.

I haven't been banded yet... but so far I've only told a few people (like4). This is a perfect example of why I will keep my business to my self.

Heavenlei, you seem to be a beautiful woman, and I know once you lose the weight you’ll be even more beautiful. Your friends and family care for you deeply, but when it all boils down, you are the one that has to live this life. I am in the beginning stages of the “lap band process”. I decided that I would only tell a few, trusted people about the surgery because people mean well but may not be wise. No one is there with me when I don’t have enough energy to do my laundry, go to the park, or clean the house because of this fat body. Do you think they are coming over to lend me a hand? NO! When I go to the Dr. and they tell me that I have an enlarged heart, High BP, and other crap going on because of this fat; is any of them helping me cook, going to the gym, or offering me encouragement? NO!! When I look in the mirror and see these rolls of fat are they there with me? NO! When I wake up 3-4 time a night because I have to pee (pre-diabetic) and I can’t breathe are they there? NO! When I look into my daughters eyes and pray in my heart that I live long enough to see my grandchildren, no one feels that fear but me. So I have to do this for me. Be encouraged Heavenlei, GOD has given you the wisdom to make the right decision.

When I first read the title, I must admit I skipped over it. But after reading your post I must say Congratulations, I am so happy for you and everyone that has lost the weight. I cant wait to lose this weight.

Good to hear that you are home. Get as much rest as you can. I am praying for your sucess.

I am also 36 and thinking about getting banded. I will be attending the seminar this evening, but I haven’t decided what facility I will have my surgery. Or if I want the sleeve, gastric, or lap band. I have a few questions: What is restricted? And what / or how much food do you eat after you’ve been banded? I have about 80-100 lbs to loose and I want it off as soon as possible. ~Dream

GOD bless you Parker62. I am excited for you. I know that you a probably in recovery by now. Please keep us posted to let me know how you are. ~Dream