Party Patti

i am a 26 year old married mother of a 1 1/2 year old beautiful girl. I have always been overweight...which i really didn't realize until i told my husband i was tired of being on a diet and that i had been on one since i was......well forever. I have high blood pressure and am not in denial, i know i need to lose weight for all of us and like so many of the people here...i am addicted to food and don't feel like i have any other choice but to get surgery to help me motivate myself...i need to be healthy for me and my family...i put me first on purpose it's not me just using bad grammar. i notice when i work out and am happy with myself my family benefits from a more well rounded Patti.