Losing in Kansas

I was a stay at home mom for 10 years. My husband left me in July and I've recently been making a lot of changes to my life. I moved to Kansas to be close to my family and started working as an office manager. My kids are still my #1 priority but now I'm my #2 priority instead of at the bottom of the list! I just had the lap band surgery on 2/10/11 so I can now add this to the new me in 2011!