I also pretty much told everyone... including anyone who reads my facebook updates... The way I look at it is this... I need all the support I can get on this journey. It's easier to let it all out now than to have to explain everytime I am asked how did I lose so much weight. That being said, I think my diabetes has a lot to do with my openness... While I have of course come across people who have said, "You don't need that" "Just eat less, exercise more" "You don't look like you need to lose that much weight" (I'm blessedly well proportioned, and people often don't believe I weighed over 240)... It's easy to respond to these statements confidently when I can respond that, "if it were just my weight, I'd be okay like this. But I have not been able to get my diabetes under control, and have not been able to lose the weight on my own that would lower my blood sugar. This is my best option." Any risks of having the surgery and living banded are far less than the risks that 'will' come if I cannot keep my diabetes under control... hope this helps...
Lisa