Hi There,
Tomorrow is my 3 year anniversary since getting the Realize band. I have gone back to my surgeon for a total of 9 fills in this 3 years. Just about every 2-3 months I go back for some tweaking. I have kept off 80 lbs out of my 90 lbs total loss. I still have not gotten to my goal weight, and I had some insight this weekend into some possible reasons why. I attended my hospital's WLS support group meeting and it was really good for me to hear other peoples' experiences. So the first year post-op, weight loss was my main focus. The second year was 50/50 weight loss and balancing work and life. This third year my focus has completely shifted to balancing my life through major changes. While I can say that I have formed one, solid new behavior- exercise- everything else is still a lot of effort.
For now, I am going back to the basics. Protein bar for breakfast. Lean Protein and veggies for lunch. Measuring my dinner portion. Only liquids in between meals. Logging in everything I put in my mouth. This is what life post-op looked like that first year when the weight was falling off. I want to re-capture that focus and this is how I'm beginning to do it =)
I am also trying to get away from slider foods and experiment with ways to cook lean protein- like chicken breast which I swore off in year 2 because it was too hard to get down. I got some new recipes from Obesity Help magazine and it inspired me to try new ways to cook chicken. I found that if I stir fry chicken (with only 1 tbsp oil), it's much moister than baked and I can get 3 ounces down! This has inspired me to try other lean Proteins that I had sworn off for fear of the pain associated when something gets stuck.
Good luck to you on your journey. It sounds like a fill might help you along with some more solid type food. I found that I was back to feeling hungry in between meals until I recently increased my protein. I find that if I have >30 grams protein per meal, it stays with me a lot longer. This could mean just adding a string cheese or a boiled egg to my lunch to push the protein count over 30 without a significant increase in calories. I personally do believe in finding that "sweet spot" because I think I'm there. I had been too tight (and knew it because I had constant heartburn) and then a little "unfill" did the trick to get rid of the heartburn and leave me with good restriction. Now that I'm at my sweetspot- It's all up to me how I work it =)