Hi, I agree with the others. I have had my band 12 years. I have no regrets with it. It hasn't been easy at times. There are days when I questioned my decision but all in all I am grateful for the band. It is like a gift that was given to me. I finally am full after eating a small meal. I would do it again in a heartbeat. Take a picture of yourselves. Keep taking pictures every month. Look at the changes. That is what keeps you motivated. It helps you to focus on what you are trying to achieve. I have been able to maintain my weight loss for 10years. You can do it too. Mona