There is somebody out there for everybody, no matter what you look like!! I was obese during most of my marriage, and he didn't care. I am now a divorced single mother of two small children. I had surgery 5 weeks ago today and have lost 27lbs. My clothes are getting too big for me and I am digging out my old clothes. I know that I have just started my journey, however I feel more confident in myself now than I have in a long time. I see people notice me and my weight loss! I LOVE IT!! I know that someday I will meet my Prince Charming! But first and foremost, I want to make myself happier and healthier, not only for me, but for my kids. You too will find somebody who will love you no matter what!!!! All you need to do is believe in yourself!! Good Luck in your journey!!!