YES YES YES I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!! My friend had it done 2 years ago with great success. I finally went to the seminar in June and thought I am not as bad off as these people I can do it on my own, and cancelled the dr appt after. Well then I finally went to dr aptt in Sept, and went thru all the stuff ( sleep apnea test, Ekg, echocardigram, psych visits, and nutritionist). I was just banded on the 17th and clear liquids for 1 week is no fun!! I am too hoping I will still to be able to eat certain foods. Usually entertainment is getting together and food. Me and my daughter have movie night with popcorn, dont know if I will be able to do that either. To her thats a big deal she is 7, and its just me and her. At this point I dont know If I would recommend it, but am sure once I can eat normal foods, I will feel better about it. I am going to try to go without fills and see how that works. I just remind myself that it is hard to do on our own, thats why I am where I am at. I am so glad someone else thinks this too. Good luck!