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I don't like the sounds of this at all. I hate to say it, but you need to take care of yourself and not be intimidated by your fiance. This sounds like a disaster! Cut your losses and lose the weight for yourself and find a better man. You don't need this in your life.

Go to Diet Direct and order the blueberry protein pancakes. Eat three of them a day and you will have 45 grams of protein . I never lost any hair. Good luck!

Honestly, it was a piece of cake. Seriously! The hardest part is what you are doing right now and that's the liquid diet. I couldn't do it and called off my surgery. The doctor found out (because I canceled it through his business office) and said that it was ok for me not to drink the bariatric stuff. Each doctor is different and has a different procedure for pre-op. I actually weighed more than you. You may have discomfort in your shoulder but I didn't. You may have gas but I didn't. You may be a little uncomfortable and that I was. But only for a few days. I went back to work after five days. You won't want to eat. You will be drinking liquids. I found a great drink and that was Ocean Spray's Diet Cranberry and it only has five calories. I still drink it as it tastes so good!!! I also recommend going to Diet Direct and ordering their blueberry Protein pancakes. Easy to make - just add Water or skim milk (tastes better with the milk) and cook it in a pan with some butter spray like Pam. It's 15 grams of protein!! Good luck!

I think you are doing great! That's over 9 lbs a month and not even through the third month. Don't be so hard on yourself. You will succeed! I'm 6 weeks into banding and have lost 20 lbs. Same scenario. Good luck!

Do not despair. I have not yet been filled (banded on 11/22/10) so I can't say why you gained. I am sure that the restriction was not tight enough. Was this your first fill?

6 weeks since I was banded and have lost 20 lbs as of today. It controls my eating and for that, I am grateful. Do it!

Is your last paycheck after january 11th? If so, then aren't you technically on the books till that paycheck? I don't know anything about the CARE CREDIT and it sounds like you are too young for it. What about family to help? I hope all goes well. You have come so far. Perhaps you can work out something with your employer. Good luck!

Congrats! I "graduated" from mushy to real food after only a week and have had no problems. I too have the best doctor. I just need to chew more slowly --- otherwise, it's a visit to the bathroom with a "stuck": episode. Have you had a "stuck" episode yet?

PLEASE DON'T FEEL BADLY. I DID A NUMBER ON MYSELF TODAY AND WENT OFF THE WAGON FOR XMAS AND TOOK MYSELF DOWN GUILT LANE. JUST GET OVER IT AS I AM DOING AND START AGAIN TOMORROW. BTW - AFTER FIVE DAYS ON LIQUIDS, I WENT RIGHT TO SOFT FOODS AND HAD NO PROBLEMS WHATSOEVER. BE GOOD TO YOURSELF AND START AGAIN. CSOLO