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My doctor went into an urgent care office so I needed a new PCP I started my first month today. He seemed almost irritated that I was needing him just to sign off once a month. I showed him my paperwork and he said that was fine but we would only actually see me every other month, the other months a nurse would take my numbers. Is that ok? Do i just need his signature or what? I am kinda confused:huh2:, i thought the dr would know what to do?? What has your experience been? What did you go over every month?

You said you were getting ready to go to a seminar. i would offer if he wants to come. I have found a lot of people say that the men were against it until they finally found out what it really was all about. If he doesn't don't push but just know that you will have to work at it just as you have to work at a marriage before band. . . just another screw thrown in. Also as you lose weight my (required for my band)therapist said that I should be very open minded to therapy if we come upon issues because she said while losing the weight a lot of new things will come up from childhood, re-defining yourself and ect. If you are religious I recommend a book called Love and respect by Eggesrich. It is based from the words of the bible and explains sooo simply how we are different and basically how to do things so that you get what you want as well as him. I am so much more relaxed in my marriage and enjoy our differences now. Good Luck!!

Lots in insurance companies cover it BUT the problem is the company that you work for has an elective packet. they can choose. So it isn't based on insurance, it is if the company has elected it as a benefit. Good Luck.

Welcome!! They had a survey on here somewhere and actually most people would gain weight on purpose to hit the 40 bmi. I was surprised but i am way over that so I haven't had that issue. You definitely need a different doctor!! Mine have never been anything less than supportive. He did want me to try on my own again just because I am young and I failed so he has given me the go ahead.. . They should never say anything rude! :thumbup:

Maybe you could try egg beaters. . . I personally love them especially the southwest. Easy to make in the morning.

I am going through KU and wondered if anyone else had any experience with them?? negative or positive?

Kansas University only uses lap band and they are a center for distinction. The new lap band has sections so it is like little pillows on the inside that grips better and less chance of slippage.

Ok, Thanks!! I wasn't sure if it would make a difference in the outcome. Thanks! Guess i am off to buy some new work out dvds

Okay I am still 6 months out from surgery but saw the nutritionist and psychologist already. The psychologist was easy but said that since I knew what changes needed to be made when I became banded I should start practicing them now. I know I can diet and lose weight especially going to weigh in at the drs the first 3-4 months I will lose then gain it back slowly. My question is should I make all those drastic changes and start losing weight or if I lose a certain amount will insurance say, "hey she is fine on her own." I know %100 I can't do it on my own as a forever solution. I need a little help, I need the band to lose and keep it off. (Btw I weigh 360 and am 5'7'')

They pretty much spell out the basics. I didn't ask anything but I definitely ask questions here. I find this place much easier to get answers because they have been through it!

I am back and with I think good results!! They psychologist was a young woman and it was basically her going over all the questions that were already on paper. She told me since I knew what I needed to change after surgery to start practicing now to get used to making meals separate from hubby in the beginning, start walking, measuring food and so on. . I guess now I just need my two support group meetings, finish my 6 months, and consult by surgeon. :frown: