Does your Bariatric Center offer a non surgical weight loss program? That could be a great place to start, and when you lose the 90 lbs, you can see the Bariatric Dr. There are people who lose without exercise, but you should still do as much as you can. I know it feels like you might starve on weight watchers, but you won't. Have you tried a counselor? Lots of people have said it really helped change their mindset about food. You can do this! If it seems overwhelming, make a small change, then another, then another. Take one day at a time and convince yourself you can do this. Wishing you the best. Sent from my XT1254 using BariatricPal mobile app