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BTW being scared of failure is normal. I had told a lot of people I was having the surgery then started to worry about failure and being known as the fat guy who couldn't lose weight even with WLS...... Failure is not an option for me but the thought of it is scary....normal

You'll do fine just remember to follow your Doc and Nutritionist guidelines. It is OK to set high goals for yourself but please, please keep the immediate expectations in check. You are not going to drop a 100lbs a week after surgery. I don't mean to come off as preaching but we see these posts daily about how ppl have surgery and a month or so later they're pissed because they have lost next to nothing for weight. I was one of those people. I was not prepared like I thought I was. I expected weight to fall off quickly the first couple of months then gradually slow down. Well it was the opposite. Patience was a tough one for me and still at times. Just remember you did not get to this point over night and you will not hit those goals that way either. Good luck and all the best!!

Rise up above. This is what I try to think about when the world is falling down around me..... How boring would this thing be if everything worked out perfect turmoil and obstacles build character. Im now 45 and have a lot of peace and inner strength knowing that no matter what comes at me im gonna be ok! Maybe it doesn't feel like it in the moment but one door closes another opens. I have had some things happen to me that would put most in the funny farm you have to hold on to faith and rely on the strong woman you are. Hang in there!

An hour for the procedure is average. Every patient is different though, follow your preop diet so that your liver will shrink making it easier for your surgeon to see and maneuver around your stomach. The easier it is for your surgeon to work once he is inside your abdomen- then the quicker your surgery will be and the less gas they will need to use, reducing the chance of shoulder pain. They really shouldn't tell you there will be "no"pain from the gas. They inflate your abdomen with c02 and this is easily gotten rid of by your body but it can rise to your shoulders and make your first night very uncomfortable. The only cure is time and getting up to walk. If it does happen to you, please know it will go away after about a day and a half. I have had a couple of surgeries were they used the gas to inflate my abdomen. When I had the sleeve was my first and only experience with the shoulder pain. The absolute best thing for you to do is get up and walk. It is good for your circulation especially to prevent blood clots and helps your bowels to 'wake up' from the effects of the anesthesia. I wish you a pain free surgery and recovery. Good luck to you. You will enjoy your new tool! Take care and keep us updated!

You will only fail if you decide not to follow through and fall back into old habits. Once you are banded you will have an all new mindset.

Girl, It will be fine. I was banded in late Feb 2013. I am so happy w/the results! You can do it girl you just got to have faith in yourself:)

You don't have to prove anything to anyone but yourself. This isn't about anyone but you and the life you have chosen for yourself. You can do it.

inches mean you are losing.....LOVED your post. you go girl........doing a happy dance for you (flipping up my skirt and everything) just for YOU.

Erp makes a good point that there are some higher calorie foods that are also nutritionally valuable. Just keep after it, you're going to find that sweet spot. That is surprising and upsetting that the premier shakes are staining your teeth! Costco has an awesome return policy - I'm sure you could take your unopened cases & return them.

<same thing with the seat belt extention and there is no worse feeling then when some who is sitting next to you is trying to get a different seat on a booked flight... Then i was able to fit without one. There is no greater relief then not having to worry about where you sit and if u can sit there.