Dooter you just need to keep this mantra in mind:
I am a kicka$$ bodaciously beautiful woman
My fat lipids fear me and shrivel away to nothing
I am the awesome! The world is my 2 oz steak tartare
I am a kicka$$ bodaciously beautiful woman!
On the serious side, everybody's body looses weight at different speeds from different places. Example: My face and thighs lose weight before my chest. And it takes a Herculean amount of weight loss for my stomach to go away. You'll get there, just think positive!