HappyMEE --- you should get in a better frame of mind... If you are setting yourself up to NOT LOSE any weight...........it means you haven't used the LB as a tool.....
In addtiion to the LB surgery, you need to change how/what you eat and also get into an exercise program....
I had my surgery 3 years ago - and can not imagine someone having it and NOT losing weight---
it IS difficult --- the weight did not come off easily -- and it doesn't STAY OFF easily - I still struggle EVERY DAY with eating.
I am NOT hungry --- I eat because i LIKE TO EAT!!!!
I have seen people lose 100 lbs after LB surgery -- and now they have gained it all back --- because they have learned how to eat what they want......
Set yourself up to do well -- succeed!!!!
It takes lots of effort and work --- YOU CAN DO IT!!!
Good Luck!
and p,s. I told EVERYONE --- so that I could be held accountable.
I felt if I did NOT tell people --- then I wouldn't have to be worried about getting caught eating food........etc.
I needed help to lose weight - the LB was one tool, having others watch and see was another.........i enjoyed the "negative Nelly's" -- they motivated me to do the right thing!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!