So today is my fourth day post surgery.

Just some insight to the surgery itself, I went alone.:glare: It initially was the one of the most frightning things that I have ever done, as I am super cautious of hospitals but I MADE IT! I was in alot of pain, much more than I ever expected and the medication I was given did not help much. But unbeknownst to my doctor I did drive myself home so I guess it couldnt have been that bad!

The next morning I was in pain, it hurt to move, sneeze, cough, sit, or stand. Once I got into position laying down was not painful. Each day it got better. I have been lathering my incision with neosporin ointment. I figure that if I have to have the scars or the gaining weight I'll take the scar but if there is even a chance I can have my cake and eat just a lil too, why not! I have had alot of gas. The nurses explained that my stomach was filled with air during the surgery so I guess what goes in must come out! Its not out of control or painful just everynow and again I burp or have a "toot"!

Last night I went out with friends to dinner. I was kinda uncomfortable but all in all it was cool. My doctor has not placed me on any protein diet but I just am not really all that hungry.I am beginning to really feel this band inside me. It is a peculiar feeling, not painful just mildly uncomfortable, but I know something is in there. I can also feel it when I eat. I have heard that some folks go back to work in like 2-3 days but I would suggest no less than a week. Actually I will be returning 6 days after my surgery and I wish I has another week to adjust. But I gotta get Ms. Realize paid for so its back to work I go! I go in for my fill next week. I am excited about that and I'll keep you posted.:wub:

Just for some additional encouragement my family has been verbally supportive but not so much with actions. I have experienced some gossiping, and side comments regarding my decision which they cloak as "concern". For anyone who may be experiencing a similar issue I challenge you to forge ahead. this is your life. Folks may not be ready for the new and happier you but your life is not about what makes those around you happy or comfortable. Do your homework make an informed decsion that you ALONE are happy with and if you have to walk alone, walk with gratitude that even though it maybe alone YOU CAN WALK!!!:devil:

Wait a minute, wait a minute! Let me get this right.... Your doctor didn't put you on a liquid diet for two weeks post procedure....and you get a fill next week???? Whoa! Doesn't your insides feel swollen, girlfriend???? Maybe I should get mine checked cause the area where my port is feels swollen, and I had my procedure last week on the 15th. You are one strong cookie to have been able to drive yourself home from the hospital. I wish you all the luck in the world. We're all in this together. Forget about the whispers behind your back, love. In a few months they will be whispering even more anyway because you will be looking way more fly than they ever could.

Salut!

Wow...I am 3 days post-op and I can barely swallow 2 protein shakes and a little water during the day. I can't even imagine eating! Even the thought of it makes my tummy tighten up.

I too can't believe you were able to drive yourself home. I really don't think I could have if I tried.

Just take it easy, and don't overdo it! We're supposed to be taking baby steps for the first few weeks. Don't want you to hurt yourself.

God bless you, and continue giving you strength to do this on your own! You go, girl!

Wow! I was on liquids for a week post-op then soft foods for 2 weeks then to normal foods. Your "insides" have to have a chance to heal. Take it easy.