Hi I am a new user this is my story...

My story I had lap band surgery on July 7th 2008 husband left me on Sept 7th (he started seeing someone else around July 14th :thumbup:) married 27 years.

He told close friends that my weight disgusts him and he cant look at me. He never once told me this to my face or ever told me he had an issue with my weight.

Funny he left me 4 weeks after lap band surgery??

Starting weight 109 kilos

Had sons wedding in Hawaii on the 2nd of Nov 2008 found out stupid husband was sleeping with someone 6 days before wedding. Endured wedding had to watch him salsa dancing (dirty dancing) with a 21 year old right in front of me at wedding.

Have lost 13 kilos so far....:blushing:

Now weigh 96 kilos

Next sons wedding next week see ex again but hey the 13 kilos made a huge difference feeling kinda sexy...:thumbup: no crying at this wedding much stronger . I am going to dance and get tispy and be happy at this wedding.I will write another blog let you know how I went.

My daugher gets married in Ausgust this time I am gonna look hot (gonna wear a red dress) should lose at least another 15 kilos.

Gonna get back at husband (not back with him ha..)

I will keep you posted I send lots of love to all you out there whoo see how sexy we are all going to look at the end of this year:tt1:

MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A SEXY MAN TO MATCH THAT DRESS GOOD LUCK

you go girlfriend!

Yep...get some eye candy to attend with (even if it's just a friend). You sound so happy now! Great attitude!! -BG

Well alright then protech!!! He sounds like a jackaz anyway's. Sounds like you lost more than just 13 kilos more like you lost tons of crap. You keep up the good job, and enjoy the new body with a new man. LOL

When that jerk comes back begging, tell him to take a big jump off a very high cliff!!

ok update well I have now lost 25 kilos yah and feeling great sexy.....when I 1st wrote my blog so depressed and sad but hey so happy now. Ok dont want to sound like a big head but have been asked out by 2 good looking 20 year olds ha...I am ummm 48 feeling I think I am a couger!! I feel really good, dont think about ex anymore, ok HELP need help quick from guys and girls, have a date coming up really cute ha...and I really like him but what do I do when I go out for dinner, cant seem to hold much down, I know I should go back to Dr probably had too much fill, but I am losing so much weight and feeling so healthy I dont want to. So I really dont want to tell the new guy I had operation, awkwark ok he is much younger lucky me....but I just know i wll scare him away if I tell him, so need help fast what should I do, seem to get sick with most meals should I bluff my way throught it for a while and if it works out tell him I used to be a fatty???

Ha....Ha...correction 30 year olds...I am no cradle snatcher