Well I finally decided to get the gastric sleeve. Funny story about why I call myself Medium sized. About 2 years ago I went out to eat at a local mexican place. We had a very young attractive waiter. The ladies thougth he was cute and some of them smiled at him the whole time. The waiter and I got along well and I did not flirt like the others. Some of the ladies were very forward with the guy. I explained that Spanish guys like big girls and they would be sorry because he liked me. They all laughed and went overboard with the flirting. At the end of the meal the waiter left the check with me and said the mints are in the sleeve and my friends thought he said that I was Medium sized. We laughed so hard we were crying. Needless to say our table closed the place down. Then when we left we stayed outside and talked for a while. The waiter was leaving at that time and came up to me and kissed me on the cheeck. I was cracking up and said ladies I told you he liked big girls. They all laughed and still I have that nick name. So may be soon I will be able to really be Medium sized. It has been a while since that was true.