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Post Op Day 5

rickgrimestwd

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Today I am doing much better. I am not sobbing. I was an emotional mess yesterday and crying. It was all fear related though. I wanted to isolate and be alone but that is the disease of food addiction so I reached out to friends and asked them to come visit me today. I use to attend Overeaters Annoymous, guess I never got the annoymous part. :P But it really taught me a lot like not to isolate. I guess that is what I want to pass along today is don't isolate yourselves. Isolating is selfish, I love being there for my friends and I will not rob them of being there for me, everybody wants to know they are needed and matter. So let your friends and family love you and don't put baby in the corner, because nobody puts baby in the corner!

So this is day five and I am sick to death of the liquid diet so my never compliant self decided to have an egg. I made one jumbo scrambled egg with a pinch of cheese and I added ketchup on top when it was done cooking. It was so nice to have food. I am really worried about getting my protein in so that is why I made myself the egg. It went down okay, funny thing is I couldn't finish it all, which made me laugh. I used to clear my plate at ihop when I had an steak omelet and now I can't even finish one egg. Now I am fighting the urge to buy a scale. Day 5 what do I think I am gonna weigh! I want to be patient and kind to myself. The weight will come off even though I have fears it won't but fear = false expectations appearing real. This journey is going to require a lot of courage and willingness to change, thank God you can fake both of those things when you don't have them at the moment, they work on credit so borrow big.

God Bless all of you and best of luck! :D



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I bet you would make a super friend, one that I would like to have. I really liked your post.

When I tried OA, everyone sat around crying, and I was so emotional over the trauma in my life, that I coudn't stand to be there.

I truly believe that you will lose the weight, just as I will, though I understand the fear.

Are you allowed to eat eggs so soon?

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I agree, you sound like a great friend to have and I can really relate with what you are saying and how you feel. What you wrote really spoke volumes to me. I haven't had the surgery yet, I have to wait until November but I am isolating myself now because I'm so embarrassed about how I look that I don't want to be seen. I keep apologizing to my husband for having to be seen with me. If it wasn't for the fact that I CANNOT isolate myself because I have to work and have 3 active kids, I probably would be sitting in my house alone.

I'm sure you are going to do great and lose all that weight!!

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I don't know if I am allowed but I live by the motto it is better to ask forgiveness than permission and I couldn't stand any more protien powders so I went slow and seems to have worked for me the egg went down nice a smooth

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I agree, you sound like a great friend to have and I can really relate with what you are saying and how you feel. What you wrote really spoke volumes to me. I haven't had the surgery yet, I have to wait until November but I am isolating myself now because I'm so embarrassed about how I look that I don't want to be seen. I keep apologizing to my husband for having to be seen with me. If it wasn't for the fact that I CANNOT isolate myself because I have to work and have 3 active kids, I probably would be sitting in my house alone.

I'm sure you are going to do great and lose all that weight!!

Well I am glad you can't isolate it keeps you in your head and sometimes it isn't always a nice or sane place to be, don't apologize for having to be seen with you. I am sure your family loves you and you have admirable qualities that would make all who know you proud to be with you.

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I am also on Post op day 5.

I agree that liquids may be a challenge, but we are not supposed to deviate from the liquid diet at this stage in the process.

An egg is more toward the pureed stage.

I know I am going to sound harsh , but the new sleeve is like an infant stomach that you have brought home from the hospital.Would you feed a 5 day old infant an egg with cheese and ketchup?

No of course not.

Liquids will not put undue pressure on that staple line.

This could result in a leak which will likely land you in the OR and then onto ICU.

Do not do this until your surgeon says it is ok.

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DID THE EGGS MAKE YOU SICK DEAR?

No, they didn't, my mom is a nurse and I live with her so if she would've told me no, then I would not have partook. I went extremely slow in eating it, chewed it really well and wasn't able to finish it because I got full.

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I am also on Post op day 5.

I agree that liquids may be a challenge, but we are not supposed to deviate from the liquid diet at this stage in the process.

An egg is more toward the pureed stage.

I know I am going to sound harsh , but the new sleeve is like an infant stomach that you have brought home from the hospital.Would you feed a 5 day old infant an egg with cheese and ketchup?

No of course not.

Liquids will not put undue pressure on that staple line.

This could result in a leak which will likely land you in the OR and then onto ICU.

Do not do this until your surgeon says it is ok.

I did some research before I ate the egg, I have been to the icu not for this surgery but another and not a great place to visit, plus my mom is a nurse and I ran it by her. Thanks for the concern. I was just really afraid of not getting protein in because I couldn't stomach the protein shakes.

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