Good for you! I'm still preop but I have all the emotions. And I know I will have those thoughts postop - what did I do? It's remembering that they are JUST THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS, and they all pass. Thanks for your honesty. Hugs.

Support groups are very important both pre op and post op because you have some place that you can share those emotions with people just like you who have been where you are. Most local hospitals have support groups check out your local hopsitals where you live. I'm one week post op I was excited the day that I went for my surgery and I was so happy afterwards because I had finally accomplished a 7yr process. Now I'm not going to say that I don't have my frustrating moments because I do especially when it comes to doing simple cleaning tasks because I can't do the bending or lifting. You make it through this so stay positive

Stay positive ! I was once told these two shall pass. I am 6 days post-op and I am also struggling with emotions. I have decided for me, I am going to post little strips on my fridge of positive things to remind myself of everyday. If I see it and read it enough, I will believe it and it will become part of me !

Stay strong and remember the end result is about a new life for you and becoming healthy, and YOU are worth it !!