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E-girl

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Next Tuesday is my surgery. I am no longer struggling with my decision to go forward with it despite that fact that two of my closest friends have been very negative lately. My one friend who has bariatric surgery, says things like, “You’re really going to miss eat…you’ll see” or “Well, you lost some weight on your own, do you really think you need to get the surgery?” Now, I know what the nutritionist meant when she said that your friends and/or family will try to sabotage your success. Even my husband has been a little discouraging, “You’re going to be in a lot of pain.” I know they mean well and they just trying to be helpful and they are worried but I believe that only you knows what best for you. The only person right now that I think is truly supportive is my dad because he has seen me struggle to get this weight off for so many years.

 

I made up my mind 6 months ago that after years of trying so many difference diets that failed me, it was time to take extreme action. I really don’t have that many more years left. I almost died 6 years ago of a cardiomyopathy. I got a second chance and I am not going to waist another day not feeling good about myself, not being able to walk up one flight of stairs without gasping for air, not being able to shop in the regular petite section, not being able to sit on my floor with my kids, not being able to tie my own shoes without holding my breath.

 

I am not doing this to look thin. I just want to be healthy. I want to want to take picture of myself. I want a body that matches my personality. I want my back, knees, and feet not to hurt when I walk. I have a great life, a great husband, and great kids. I want to be around for grandchildren.

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E-girl... You are doing this for all the right reasons. I am only 5 weeks out and can already eat most of my favorite foods. I had Mexican food on Friday evening. I had Shepard's pie yesterday. Yes, I can only have 1/3-1/2 cup of my favorites, but you learn to eat slow, savor ever morsel and enjoy what you put in your mouth more than you ever had. I promise you there are many folks that get stressed about what they will miss, but reality you can have everything and a small bite satisfies you. I am sure this is only going to get better for me. I am anxious to try salad, I loved salads and wraps. Now I can have a small wrap made on a 6 inch tortilla shell instead of an 18 inch. I may not even be able to finish it, but I can have it, and feel total satisfaction. I always get my protein first and then hopefully can put in some carbs one meal a day. You'll see, a new healthier you. Your friends will be amazed and envious. Good luck on Tuesday.

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CONGRATS! It does hurt when you get negative feedback from people that are your best friends. For me, I didn't have alot of pain. The toughest part was getting up where the incision sites were and that was because my muscle was cut into too. It didn't last too long. It wasn't what I think of pain. Just soreness. No big deal. My life right now is so much better. My blood work is excellent. Well, my LDL still needs to decrease from 102 to 100, but I still view that as miracluless! Time to enjoy life, you have a wonderful family and they need a healthy you. Your children want to play with you on the floor. They want to go exercise with you also. This is the time to embrace life and encorporate healthy life skills.

CONGRATS! Can't wait to hear about your progress!

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Congrats! I hope all goes well, and I'm sending you warm thought, wishes, and a speedy, painless recovery! You are doing this for all the right reasons, you're doing this for your health, for live! I really hope that your husband and close friends come around also, as crazy as this sounds I think the love and support of others helps with recovery.

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