Ultimately we all have our own journey. Stay focused on what you want for yourself and as you get healthier, you will gain the benefits of your decision, both in your health and the way you look.

I've discussed my plans with those closest to me and so far I have not had any bad feedback, but if I do - I'm going to take it with a gain of salt. I'm doing this to save my life...and if I look better in the process, who's complaining? Certainly not me.

I still plan on being the foodie I am. But I may focus on making the most delicious little morsels I can create rather than filling up on empty fast food and giant meals. I can picture myself enjoying a small glass of wine with friends at times....and perhaps an entree of seared scallops over a asparagus puree.

Good luck. Hope all goes well.

I am so overwhelmed and thankful for all of your responses. I appreciate the time you all took to share your wisdom.

I am having a going-away food party on Saturday. My friends are all bringing their favorite appetizers and cocktails and we are going to eat and drink to new beginnings. I am hoping as I walk to the end of this diving board my friends remain behind me as I take this plunge. But now I know I have this lovely website to lean on too. Thanks everyone!!

I knew I was going to get that response too from my family so,I didn't tell anyone until sunday before my wedesday surgery date..I didn't not want there negative opinion I just thought they should know in case they were looking for me..My husband and daughter were my support group.My friends had mixed emotions..But 3 months later and 50lbs lighter there very supportive...Not my family though ,but that's there hangup not mine...yea me!