tiff.. so sorry. i am one of those blessed with a wonderful mother and now am a mother to a beautiful daughter. so sorry that you have hurts from that relationship. cyber hugs. i pray that God will meet you and minister to you and your mom. that some day your relationship will have a testimony of God's grace and healing. in the mean time let those that love you and cherish you hold you up. thanks for all your kind words on this forum. you surely are a ray of sunshine to many of us. we love you!!!

i am so sorry you and your mom keep hurting each other. i know for myself, i couldn't do without my mom in my life. wish that i had more time to talk with her everyday. i work from 9-5 monday thru friday, then when i get home my kids pull me in so many directions and then when i do finally get to sit down it is after 900 pm and i hate to call her that late.

Thank you both. Luckily, I did talk to my younger brother, and myself and Caysen are going to stay with them for the week.

I am tired of us hurting each other too. I want us to have a good relationship, I don't want to end up like what has happened to her family. She estranged from all of her family, and had a deplorable relationship with her own mom. I just want to move passed all of this.

Thank you all for your support.

glad that it worked out for you and caysen to stay with your brother. hopefully in time things will be better. kelly

Mother daughter relationships can be so complex. I love my mom, but she can be sort of a know it all sometimes. I'm independent, she wants me to be more dependent I think (like my younger sis) The main thing you have to do is take care of yourself first..I hope things get better for you girl, hang in there!!