i agree deedee.

we all have had a weight problem. and we know how it feels to

have this surgery. alittle kindness goes along way and compassion.

i try to have alittle of each. although i admit, i at times can become incensed as the sheer stupidity of those who seemingly dont care.

hugs...I agree some of the dumb not respecting band storys do get maddning....

I am refering to a post I read where some ones is wishing another cant sleep at night and telling people they get no sympathy,,,,when or if they fail.....

Some one better then any one on this site or any site will judge us...

hugs...I agree some of the dumb not respecting band storys do get maddning....

I am refering to a post I read where some ones is wishing another cant sleep at night and telling people they get no sympathy,,,,when or if they fail.....

Some one better then any one on this site or any site will judge us...

i must not have read that..apparently for good reason.

We cant fix stupid, remember that and carry on!

I know what you're saying Dee. Because we watch a loved one struggle every day with their life and still manage to always wear a smile, its hard to imagine someone wishing ill on another.

So true Mads....acually made me cry today after I read that

I'm speechless. Why are we hurting each other? Why?

Why in the world would someone even wish that another person couldnt sleep. They should come look at the pathetic patients I take care of every single day and then say that to someone else. I know we all get in a beef once in a while here but I would never wish someone bad or harm just for the sake of not agreeing with them.