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Committed Relationship

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Kime-lou

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I met my wonderful amazing husband 5 years ago and married him 3.5 years ago. He is my biggest fan and support. Once he went to the seminar on WLS he was fully supportive of me having the band. Over the next couple of months I hemed and hawed about would I be, could I be successful on this journey. He kept telling me that ofcourse I would, I just needed to commit to him as I did him.

 

Soooo.......

 

I am in a committed relationship with my band. My band is 100% behind me losing weight. While my band can't prevent me from eating more than I should or eating things that are unhealthy for me; it can help me stay satisfied longer on less, that is if I allow it to. When I think about my band from this perspective- I think about I would never cheat on my husband why would I want to cheat on my band. Ruining my marriage would be painful, but ruining my band and having to have another surgery wouldn't be a walk in the park either. Just like with a marriage you have to work at it, I have to work at my band life. Some days it will be easy and other days it won't, but I don't give up on my marriage just because of one road bump and I won't give up on my band either.

 

Just like I want my marriage to last forever, I want my band life to last to.

 

So with this being said.... ( I am calling my band George)

 

I promise to love, honor, and cherish George forever!!

 

Are you in a committed relationship with your band?

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First, I hope your husband doesn't get jealous of George! :-) Second, I am. I don't go to docs and do things unnecessarily. Even the people in my family and friends that know me well darn well know I'm serious and committed if I went through all this. However, I still haven't picked out a name for my band. I'd like too, but it hasn't come to me yet. :-)

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