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New Milestone

♥LovetheNewMe♥

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Well banster family, I hit a new milestone today I wanted to share. I had a check up with the doctor and when I weighed in today, I am no longer obese,I am now just over weight. Now only my bandster family can appreciate what that means. I started this journey 14 months ago and at that time by the charts I was considered morbidly obese. Needless to say I am very excited. To reach my goal I only need to loss 12 additional pounds, now to no longer be considered over weight I would need to loose an additional 26lbs. My doctor and I decided on a weight based on my bone structure and muscle mass. Now that being said I never started this journey to be thin, my Goal; was to be healthy. It feels good to have energy and not longer have knees that hurt all the time. I feel very blessed to have done so well this passed year and am thankful for my supporting husband and family and for my wonderful surgeon for always being understanding. I never considered skinny and me in the same sentence and it still bothers me when people say I am skinny. I am by no means skinny, they were just so use to seeing me "Healthy" aka Fat that I do look "Skinny". Today people said," now your not going to lose more weight are you because you sure look skinny". So I replied, Yes I do plan to lose a few more pounds because I am still above the goal my physician and I have set. Well that just lead to well, you don't want to lose too much more, you don't want to look old. OMG! Did the forget I am old, and I would rather be think and old than obese and old. So I ask "What does skinny actually mean?" Below are the definitions for Skinny and Overweight.

Definition of SKINNY Definition:

 

1: resembling skin : membranous

 

2 a: lacking sufficient flesh : very thin : emaciated

b: lacking usual or desirable bulk, quantity, qualities, or significance

 

Definition: Overweight refers to an individual weighing 10% or more of what is considered his or her recommended healthy weight

 

I actually think I take more offense to being called skinny then to being called overweight.... emaciated. Boy I never thought anyone would use that word to describe me. When I think emaciated, I have an image in my mind of a someone who is so thin you can count their ribs. Now I may be thinner but believe me you can not count my ribs and baby still got Back! Now for those of you just starting your journey, you are probably thinking what is this women ranting about, but seriously can no one give a compliment these days. If you can't say something nice to someone just keep your mouth closed, thank you.

 

Well I feel better now and I will continue on my journey and will stop losing when my physician and I feel I am at a healthy weight for my body type.

 

Thanks for Listening and allowing me to rant.

 

Good luck to all of my bandster family, keep motivated, focused and all dreams can come true with dedication and time.

 

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Hey, I completely understand! I haven't told my hub's family that I had the surgery over a year ago. I saw my mother in law last week and after 3 hours she asks me, "How much have you lost now?" I tell her 81 pounds and she says ,"You don't want to get too skinny"....no congrats, wow you look great or anything! Now I know why they are the only ones I haven't told!

Good luck to you too!

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I too started this so I could climb the stairs to my room and go up them any time i wanted not just at night to go to bed sometimes i would sponge bath downstairs to avoid the damn stairs i still have a hard time with them but the more i loose the easier they get i dont care if i am thin i just want to be able to run up the stairs whenever i want to and not dred doing it

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Congrats on your milestone! I hope to one day be considered overweight too!I have a goal that is bigger than some people think it should be, but I don't want to lose too much for me. I have been big since I was 14-15 yrs old, so losing more than a certain amount will make me not feel like...me. But, everyone has to make their own personal goals, and revise them as need be. My weight goal is 180 lbs. I want to not be small, but I still want to get healthy! And me at that weight will be healthier than I have been in AGES!

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