Do this for you and rid your life of the drama and think about YOU! As for your Dad I am sorry. Please stay focused on yourself as much as possible. I think as woman we tend to focus on others. This is your "ME" time. You will not regret doing for you! I am 46 and have been heavy for sometime now. I am telling you do this for you and don't look back because we are woman and we have no limits! Live your life to the fullest! You own your future!

thank you..that means alot to me im going to stop being lazzy and feeling sorry for myself im going to actually get up and go for it and focus on myself

Have you had the lapband? If so, go to the doctor and get a fill, a pep talk and most of all, get out. Think about how proud your dad would be to see a healthier daughter. Start walking, heck if it's cold go to the local WalMart and walk for 2 hours or a mall. You don't have to go in the stores, just walk. Computers are so very addictive, I have found myself post op this past week more on it than off it. I have to get moving too, I did walk Walmart for 2 hours yesterday, I am sore, but feel pretty good about it. Today I am walking the park, it's in the 70's here in GA. But that is my goal. Set some small steps, track your journey, but stay away from bad influences. I am 51, I have set myself up for failure so many times it's ridiculous. I wish you much luck Breana.

hey thank you and i hope we all have success in our goals i feel so far away in this lap band reach but for now i wanna just eat right and be ready for it i cant give up now its all gonna pay off well im hoping m insurance will hehe