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I write this as I sit here devouring a bowl of homemade guacamole!!

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Since the surgery I have a new love of guacamole. I never did before and now I love the stuff. Crazy good!

 

Well, I haven't been on here in almost a month. I am down 107 lbs as of today. I had my surgery almost a year ago. One year will be May 12th. I plan on that day posting a look back at the past.

 

Today I thought I would share a VERY IMPORTANT TIP..............

 

DON'T COMPARE YOURSELF OR YOUR JOURNEY TO ANYONE ELSE'S. I know, it's easier said than done but it is so important. Everyone is different. Everyone's body responds differently. What works for me may not work for you. It doesn't hurt to try but it is very easy to get discouraged when things don't work out the same as others. It may not be that you are doing anything wrong it's just not in the cards for you at the same pace as others. I see others on here upset because they aren't advancing the same as others. I used to be one of them. I wasn't losing weight as fast in the beginning as others who had surgery around the same time. I compared myself all the time. I don't anymore. I am ME. I have tips and things that have worked for me and it is only as a suggestion to others. It may work for you too and it may not. Trial and error.

 

Here are few differences I have. I don't drink protein shakes anymore unless I get a fill and I only drink one for that day. I don't eat a mere few ounces at a meal. I eat a salad plate size portion at each meal. This is my surgeon's and lap band's recommendation. Lap Band has even come out with a lap band plate showing the size portion you should have. I was beating myself up over vacation last year because I thought I was overeating. I came back from vacation and had lost 12 lbs. WOW. They told me it was because I was eating more. Okay so I took that advice and ran with it. I now eat that much when I can and I incorporate high protein foods. Life is good and it works for me. Find YOUR niche and you will be so much more happy than you are when you compare how you are doing to someone else.

 

Much Love and Respect to everyone who is on or are about to embark on this journey!!

Angie

http://thelapbandexperience.blogspot.com/



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I just wanted to say thank you for writing this blog today. I have been so discouraged lately as i am slowly approaching my one year bandiversary (July 1st) and so far Ive only lost 45lbs. I have been comparing myself to other all the time and your right not doing so is easier said than done but reading this today has surely made me feel a lot better . Keep up the good work. Ill try your method as i find myself eating very little or sometimes not at all and ive been told thats probably the reason I haven't been losing.

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I, too, want to thank you. I was banded last August and am down 81 pounds. The last couple of months, though I've been feeling like the weight has stopped coming off. I've been bouncing up and down within 3 pounds for what feel like FOREVER! Thanks for reminding me to stop comparing myself to others and to just keep plugging along doing the right things.

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@Sweetsagi, 45 lbs is a HUGE accomplishment!! Be proud of what you have done. Just think, that is 45 lbs you no longer carry around. Like I said, trial and error. Find the right amount of food that works for you. There are some days when I can't eat very much in a sitting and that is due to what I am eating. Some foods take up more space. I am here for you. Keep in touch even if you need to vent or bounce an idea off me. You are still doing great!! AWESOME!!

@Clohse, Great Job! We are all winners here. You are you and I am me. We are fabulous each in our own ways. Keep it up.

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Congrats on your year weight loss!!! It really helps to hear this as I am one of the ones who is discouraged. Ive only lost 11lbs since my surgery and its 2 months out!!! I am eating smaller portions but still eating enought I just havnt found the right thing yet!!! I have no doubt I will! Tomarrow is my 2nd fill Im so exicted. Maybe I will get another cc in my band! that will put me 4cc in 14cc band!

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