I had the same thing with my hubby wondering if I was going to leave him for someone better once I started looking better! Some men get insecure when their wives get thinner & more confident, it took a lot of reassuring! As for the lack in sex drive, call your doctor. You may have a hormone imbalance that can be easily cured with a cream or pill. Good luck! I hope things get better!!!

I have lost my sex drive too. Its been many months now - nothing. I even went as far as to get testosterone gel from my gyn. However, that caused my band to get tighter. If you havent experienced it yet, our hormones play a huge role in our bands. I didnt actually believe it until month after month I realized at PMS time I was throwing up a lot and unable to eat. My doc confirmed it. He said its common. I didnt want to have sex 30 pounds ago because I was too fat. Now...I still feel the same. Im still 200 lbs though. Im hoping IF I ever get down to my goal weight of 170 that I will feel sexy again. Best of luck to you.

Thanks guys!

I am not an adulterer and to be accused of being one makes me sick to my stomach. I've always been upfront and honest with my husband and never gave him a reason to doubt me. Its just unbelievable to me.

I made an appointment with my doctor today. Hopefully she'll be able to help me fix this

Think he is feeling insecure that youre losing weight and have the fear that you might want someone else just reassure him and me be EXTRA accountable until he start feeling secure about your marriage.