I think when people on this site or anywhere else write blogs/post they open themselves up to be judged, encouraged, and for others to find a common thread in what you have said! Therefore, I do think it's very important for everyone to be opened to the various remarks that may come your way. When it becomes public knowledge others feel free to say as they wish. <BR><BR>Personally, I enjoy the different remarks or out of the box remarks from others, because it keeps me open to viewing my situation in a different perspective. Just remember- when something is shared it's no longer your own, but it's opened up for everyone to judge!<IMG class=bbc_emoticon alt= src="http://cdn.lapbandtalk.com/public/style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif">

I read your FAT GIRL MOMENT blog and I do understand why you would write this blog, but venting your feeling to the world opens your situation up to be viewed and judged by others- always! I do love reading your blogs and I think you have done and excellent job.

LOL I haven't been back to my fat girl moment blog, is there something there that would make me write this? Let me go look! lol but hold up I'm in a mood today, maybe I should wait so I don't come up out my faith lol...

But yes my dear, I know.. I've been on the internet since 92 before it was cool lol, I'm aware of how it works and really this isn't to anyone imparticular or because of a certain blog, I was reading several blogs after having a rather interesting conversation with some local people I met who were having or have had the surgery at my dr's office. Just the comments online and in person I'm just like ummmm "really?!?!"

I just think alot of people fat, thin or inbetween try to make their issues other people's issues and don't accept responsibilities for their own actions - I'm not going for it. You know how we all think we know SO much before we get it and we have all these opinions and ideals and then we come to find out.. Ohhhh ok well maybe I didn't know EVERYTHING lol... but all of that being said I was just kinda in a mood, I was waiting (FOREVER as usual) at my dr's office and I told 2 of the ladies about this site, I was showing them on my phone and got to reading and blogging out of some irritation. There's multiple facets that play into it, personal messages I get on here, the way people talk to other people, etc... but now i"m curious.. maybe I will go back and look at the other blog lol.

Great read as always! THANKS!

Well, for whatever it was worth I was just adding my 2 cents in! However, you are correct about this being a personal journey!

HI there! I was wondering if you could please post your "red carpet ready cake recipe" again. I lost it and wanted to make it. Sounds yummy and as I remember - it was so low cal. My hubby likes his sweets, but he is dieting with me. So I thought this would be a nice occasional treat for the both of us. Thank you! I enjoy your posts!

Sure no problem I'll post it on your wall.