and I thought I was stressed! LOL!! Sometimes ya just have to get things off your chest! it will all pass...slowly...but it does..

-cheryl

Let it out, sister!

AMEN!. you let it go, most of us here can relate.

There comes a time when you just have to vent your frustration and luckily we all have a place to do it. We are here for you - we feel your pain.

I certainly feel your pain. I have 4 more days to surgery and I want to eat so badly. I was ok til tonight. Weekends are when we love to go out to eat. It means a lot to have support from friends and family, but nothing is like this forum. It is really great to read the same things that I'm thinking. My husband has been great tho. Bless his heart, he's eaten sandwiches ever since day one of this pre op. I sure will be happy when I can eat something again, and at this point, I don't really care if it looks like baby food.

this is too funny!! i haven't gotten to this point yet...

COPA...you are lucky that your husband is eating sandwiches..i still cook for mine and it's torture to cook/smell the food and not be able to eat. I have my surgery on the 29th and i'm so ready to get it over with...

you said it darlin! Hang in there!

Did you discuss HOW they (the Family) could support you with food habits before you had the surgery? If not, then I know you want to blame someone, but is it really fair to blame them??? I understand how frustrating it can be. I usually just get up and go take a shower while my husband has food he likes and knows it will temp me or that I can't have it. I don't resent them for it, I am the one who has the eating disorder and the weight problem. I am the one who made this decision, and I did it for ME and I still do it for ME and no one else. They probably don't care (family) if you did this or not, they will be proud of you eventually so just stick to the plan and go with it, YOU will be happy in the end! Trust me, I am praying for you to heal and feel better in your spirit. and that your family will learn what to do and how to understand where you are right now.

TO THE ONE THAT IS DOING IT THE 29THM WE WILL BE BAND BUDDIES!!!!! LOL

Awesome!!!!!