i just realized that on Tuesday i am going to a work related meeting where i am going to see people i have not seen since i weighed 276-280lbs:unsure: These women are very jugmental and i am sure they have been giving their opinion about my surgery and im sure their expectations are high ( none are Obese)

I now weight 243lbs... I cant really see a big difference when i look at myself but i am kinda hoping my coworkers do...is that stupid? i know that what comes outof my bosses mouth is usually not sincere..so that will bug me.

Anyways... i know come tuesday i will be looking in my closet for something slimming..black always works.:confused:

You are doing amazing well. Who cares what these people say or think? You are changing yourself for your, your family and your good health. If these people are judgemental and not sincere, why should you care what they think? Keep up the good work. I don't even know you and yet I am very proud of you.

hey,ex-gorda I know what you mean I have also not lost that much weight my self i am down to 224 from 246 and I really cant see a difference but others can anything past 20 pounds is noticable.Anyways what matters is that you instantly feel better about yourself when you see the scale go down.Keep up the good work and keep in touch. Sinceramente, Chachis