I finally recieved my date for surgery yesterday, the 19th of Nov. three days before my birthday, Happy Birthday to me. I like this gift but am really scared. Woke up this a.m. and first thing I thought of is "what the hey am I doing, this is so drastic". wish I could do it on my own, but I know I can't, have tried it many times. I just pray I am doing the right thing. I know if I don't do it I won't live to see my grandkids grow up. I am so tired of not be able to do anything because of my weight, and I want to do everything. My husband and I retired and now is the time to play. I can't so I believe I am doing the right thing, we'll see. :confused:

You sure listed a couple of excellent reasons to lose weight once and for all - your grandkids and being able to actually live the life you want and do everything you want to do. I know how you feel about the surgery, though, because I felt the same way. All I can tell you is that today, being over 40 pounds down (had surgery August 11), so far, it's the best thing I've ever done and I don't regret it for one second. The difference in how I can get through my day is already remarkable. I have hope for an active and healthy future - didn't have that before.

Keep us updated and let us know how surgery goes for ya'. We're here!

You will be soooo glad you did this. On Nov. 19th it will be my one year bandiversary and so far have lost 114 lbs. It was the best thing I have done for myself and I can't believe how fast that year has gone. Good luck on your journey, you will do great. Keep us posted on your progress.

Thank you for your encouraging words, I will make it and will keep you informed on my progress.

Congratulations on one year anniversary!!!!