Why is it that when it rains it pouts ok so as far as the band i go for my last appt sept 09 ok but ok im trying to buy a house and yeah that can be good new but i have a few items i have to get removed which is fine so i have to work extra hours not to mention im a single mother with 2 kids but i have people that will help me but ok this is the big one my 2 kids attend private school one is 5 and is in kindergarden and the 3 year old is in pk 3 ok so i thought the 3yrs old would have had all the problems but she is adjusting to her new school and teacher and the 5 yr old is acting a fool but the strange thing is he is the loving one the sweet one he listens but when he goes to shool he to turn into a child i dont no what to do i have taken toys all kinds of solutions. i am so tired im like even though i have waited 6 months to get the band its seems to be the last thing on my mind. Band family i need your advice:confused:

Pat yourself on the back you are doing a great job parenting. It is hard for the little ones to go off to school. Leave you at home and go away from you, the safe and loving mommy that you are. Listen and hear what it is the 5 year old is going through. Validate the child's needs and let them know, you know just how hard it is for them. Let them tell you about what they like or do not like. They will realize you care and they will want to tell you more.

Set your limits and do not back down. You have a life too. Seize the moment. Best wishes I hope I have helped? My kids are 19 and 21 and off the University of Vermont in 5 days. Yippeeee. I will miss them and not their laundry five outfits a day.......is five too many. Thanks for helping me keep my paws out of the cookie jar. imaluckydog Kathy