I am getting the VSG march 7th. i am scheduled to have my surgery march 7th 2011.. i am currently 265 lbs and constantly out of breath or in pain with my back to to my excess weight... today i am thinking about not going through iwth the surgery.. im scared!!! i am a worrier but i am sick to my stomach about what can go wrong.. worried about hair loss, blood loss, infection, staple leaks, and even death... please?? can anyone help me calm down???